Family Tree, by Barbara Delinsky

Family Tree is the only thing I’ve read by Barbara Delinksy. It caught my eye at the bookshop, and I borrowed it to have something to read on the bus. I didn’t expect much from it, and it delivered. The plot is one that has been cropping up in a lot of mass market fiction these days: white people discover they have African-American ancestors and all hell breaks loose. Much depends on the characters in these books, and in this one, the characters are very two-dimensional. Sensitive white liberal wife from humble roots embraces the possibility of a black ancestor; well-intentioned husband struggles with elitist and latently racist family norms in an effort to accept her and their obviously multiracial newborn, and then…plot twist! It’s the husband whose grandfather was black! Except that it’s an entirely obvious development, and not twisty at all.

I suspect I might have liked the novel better had it been written by a black person, as the author might then have chosen to omit various educational dialogues wherein the wife explains to the husband that he’s a hypocrite if he champions the rights of people of color in his professional life and then shuns their acquaintanceships socially (for example). The book would also have been better without the heavy-handed symbolism in the doll-playing of the biracial little girl next door or the periodic use of ‘African American’ as a noun, rather than as an adjective, which grated on me to no end.

Basically, if you’re a well-meaning white person who’s never considered the complex history of race in the United States, the myths we tell about it, the open secrets and interrelationships that constitute our cultural history, or the possibility that social hierarchies are categorically suspect, this book is for you! Otherwise, give it a miss and read some Nella Larsen.

Family Tree, by Barbara Delinsky

Lesser Scaup

Earlier this week, I added a bird to my lifelist: the Lesser Scaup. I saw a group of them bobbing in the Tidal Basin, looking knackered (quite frankly). There didn’t seem to be any hens; I had initially thought that the slightly dingier ones were hens, but Peterson’s clarified that they are distinctly brown. According to my Birds of Virginia guide, they are resident year-round throughout the state, so my initial assumption that they were migrating through was likely incorrect (although they still could have been recently returned from their winter vacation).

At any rate, I had seen scaups in Oregon, but I didn’t (at the time) know what to look for to tell the greater from the lesser. On these ones, the slant of the head was clearly noticeable (I knew what to focus on this time around), and they were close enough to the shore that I could estimate their size with greater accuracy.

Lesser Scaup

The Annapolis Pottery

Today was the first really sunny and clear day of spring, and we took the day off to visit Annapolis. My partner had never been downtown, so we had fun walking around and reading the plaques on houses. Besides the food — of course, the best fish and chips I’ve had in years is to be had at the pub on the dock — my favorite part was The Annapolis Pottery. The shop itself was filled with beautiful things, and the potters were hard at work creating wet pieces. It was fun to be able to see masters at work, and remember how quickly things take shape in their hands. I can only dream of someday being half that good on the wheel.

We didn’t buy anything to take home with us, but several things caught my eye: the spherical nest ‘box’ and bird feeders (of course), the French butter keepers, the covered baking dishes, assorted pitchers and carafes, and a particularly vibrant red wine bucket / utensil container. The series that involved pressed leaf forms was beautiful, too.

I love going into shops like that one, even (or especially) when I know I won’t be buying anything. They’re like a mini gallery visit. And, the colors and shapes always give me something to think about for my own creations.

If only I could learn some tricks from simply watching the potters’ hands, I’d be golden.

The Annapolis Pottery

The Big Year, by Mark Obasmick

The Big Year, by Mark Obasmick, is my favorite book of those I’ve read so far this year. It was wonderful. I had no idea when I picked it up that it was going to be so rich, make me laugh so much, or push all kinds of achievement-anxiety buttons. What writing!

Here’s how much I got hooked on a journalistic account of three driven men chasing rare birds around North America in 1998: I didn’t just miss my stop on the Metro on my way to the bookshop, I got off the train at the wrong stop, transferred to another line on autopilot, and rode it all the way to my usual Tuesday stop, and didn’t realize I had gone to completely the wrong place until I looked at my watch at that stop and said ‘oh no, I’ve missed my bus! Wait…there’s no bus here…this is the wrong stop…I am in the wrong state…how did I get here?…this is not my beautiful wife….’ That’s how much I had to know how the year ended. Not even who won, but what happened: which birds did they finally get to see? Which mountains did they scale, which birds eluded them until the very end? Did they help each other? Did they not? Did one get to wipe that smug smugness off the face of the other?

I knew a few things about myself before picking up this book. Like, I get anxious when engaging publicly in things I’m not good at. Or, that I enjoy the thrill of seeing a new bird for the first time, and am comforted by seeing a favorite bird again. I had no idea, though, that those things would dovetail so neatly while reading this book. Midway through, I had to put the book down to be reassured that (1) I’m not ‘behind’ because I am 32 and only have a lifelist of 100 birds long, (2) I’m not a total failure because I can’t tell most shorebirds, warblers, or seabirds apart without agonizing over my Peterson’s, and (3) things are not going to fall apart if I don’t get on the internets right now and start planning trips to all of the places in the U.S. where you can see a bunch of birds at once that everyone knows about except me. That’s how well Obasmick captures the driven competitiveness — as well as the smug self-assuredness — of the kooky people and kooky challenge they’re undertaking.

Alongside the inferiority-complex-inducing narrative of the bird chasing and identifying — which was laced with so many resultant ludicrous situations and happenings that I nearly fell off my chair laughing at several key points — is a similarly engaging, but less anxiety-producing, narrative of the history of bird watching in the U.S. This side of the book is the balm, the soothing reminder that bird watching is an activity peopled by those who love birds and get a thrill out of seeing them and finding them, of all levels of skill or experience. Obasmick places these three men in their historical context, and in so doing creates a craving to read the other key narratives of bird chasing and Big Years: Kingbird Highway and Wild America.

Mostly, the book made me want to read less and bird more. Thankfully, spring is on its way.

The Big Year, by Mark Obasmick

popping pills

In the last day, I have gained a greater appreciation for those little boxes that tell you not only which day to take your pills, but what time of day as well.

This week I finally received my January blood work from my endocrinologist’s office, and confirmed that my blood counts remained at last year’s low levels. Both my acupuncturist and nurse-practitioner agreed that I needed supplements: from one, I received a prescription for a blood booster, and from the other, a prescription for an iron pill (with instructions to take it with a vitamin C drink).

Really, the only tricky thing about this is that I can’t take iron or calcium within four hours of my thyroid medication. And, of course, I can’t take iron or calcium within four hours of each other. And, I need to take all of these things with food, including the one that I take three times a day. So I need to eat three times a day, four hours apart, beginning one hour after I wake up and take my thyroid medication. Oh, and in between two of those meals, the probiotic supplement, with water only.

Thankfully, I have a sports watch with five alarms. Its original purpose was to time me for run/walk intervals, but reminding me to eat meals and take pills is a perfectly useful adaptation.

The upside: I finally have a use for those eensy weensy plastic storage containers that you get when you buy a set.

popping pills